It isn’t that people can’t change because they can. It is that people are not as willing to do the work that is needed for them to change. So the question isn’t can they change? It is, are they willing to do the work to change?
PROMPT: What was the last change you noticed in a loved one?
Lesson 362: Replace “That Was Stupid Of Me” with “That Was Human Of Me”
As a human being, we are all fallible and that’s just par for the course. It hurts when people talk down on themselves because they are ignoring the fact that they are human and they can make mistakes. It’s ok. Just fix things and learn from the mistake. Replace “That Was Stupid Of Me” with “That Was Human Of Me” because you are human after all.
Lesson 361: Find A Partner That Wants To Build With You
It’s possible that you find someone that is already made and doesn’t want to build anything new. All good. However, if you meet someone that is still building and they don’t consider building with you, that’s a good sign that the relationship will not go anywhere. When you build together, the bond grows tighter and it makes for beautiful stories to share in the future.
We all have things we carry. We all have our baggage. We should learn to be more understanding because we all go through so much and we never know how heavy the other person’s burden is.