Category: Lessons With A King

It is a good idea to have a life audit. A life audit according to Ximena Vengoechea is an exercise in self-reflection that helps you clear the cobwebs of noisy, external goals and current distractions, and revisit or uncover the real themes & core values that drive & inspire you. Also known as spring cleaning for the soul. It is an involved process but it will take you to the next level.

PROMPT: When was the last time you did a life audit?

If you meet them, learn from them.

PROMPT: What did you learn from the last person you met?

It isn’t that people can’t change because they can. It is that people are not as willing to do the work that is needed for them to change. So the question isn’t can they change? It is, are they willing to do the work to change?

PROMPT: What was the last change you noticed in a loved one?

As a human being, we are all fallible and that’s just par for the course. It hurts when people talk down on themselves because they are ignoring the fact that they are human and they can make mistakes. It’s ok. Just fix things and learn from the mistake. Replace “That Was Stupid Of Me” with “That Was Human Of Me” because you are human after all.

PROMPT: What was the last mistake you made?

It’s possible that you find someone that is already made and doesn’t want to build anything new. All good. However, if you meet someone that is still building and they don’t consider building with you, that’s a good sign that the relationship will not go anywhere. When you build together, the bond grows tighter and it makes for beautiful stories to share in the future.

PROMPT: What are you building with your partner?